My Driving Journey - Lesson 38 & 39

Tuesday 5th November
Today I learnt that driving really does keep the mind busy. I had my second interview today straight after my driving lesson, I know full well if I didn't have my driving lesson I would be a real mess with nerves. Luckily the driving lesson completely distracted me. During my lesson I got to practice a parallel park, a reverse round a corner, a 3 point turn & finished off by bay parking.
 
Thursday 7th November
So today we ended up driving across to the next town & got to practice different types of junctions, traffic lights & roundabouts. Just really practicing different road situations too. I found out today that at the beginning of the week a lady who suffers with her nerves past her test first time, yayyy! I really love a happy story & it just proves that people suffering with various things can achieve things!
 
 
Oooohhh & I also have some exciting news too!
 
This is why I'm posting this late, today I had my theory test & ready for it....
 
I PASSEDDDDDDD!!!!
first time, woo hoo!!!!
 
Genuinely can't believe it but I'm so proud of myself.
 
 ♥
 
I really love being able to share my journey with you, my friends.
 
Thanks for reading.
- Anna ♥

Sit Down Sunday - 10th November 2013

Hello there,
it's that time of week again. It's SUNDAYYYYY!
 
I hope you've all had a good week
& if not, I hope next week will be a better week for you..
 
 
If you are new here you might not know what Sit Down Sunday is but click here & you'll find out all about it. I've just realised this feature was introduced a month ago now. WOW, that month has flown by.
 


This photo pretty much speaks for itself, it really is the little things. When I received this text I couldn't help but smile, so thank you Joe you little sweetie.
 
Other things that have made my week are..
 
- being part of such a supportive community
- last nights x factor, brilliant!
- positive feedback
- Christmas shopping
- bubble baths
- cosy nights in
- hollyoaks
- chunky knit hats to hide bad hair days
- being surrounded by understanding people
- driving theory cds
 
 
What has made your week this week?
Let me know in the comments.
I love hearing from you.
 
Thanks for reading.
- Anna ♥

achievements

I keep thinking to myself how far I've come recently & it always manages to make me smile. When I'm having a really poopy day I remember it is just that & better days are coming. Some of the things I've achieved are so big to me but will be so little to others. That doesn't mean they aren't achievements or any less important. I'm sure we are all guilty of comparing ourselves to others, what if we just stopped doing that & actually recognised our achievements & how far we have come over the past week, past month, past year. Will you join me?
 
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Since I now feel friendships building with some of you lovely people, I really would love you to get involved with me & recognise your achievements. I'd love for you to share them with me too. Maybe you'll leave a comment below, maybe you'll send me a tweet, maybe you'll send me an email or maybe you'll even create your own little blog post about it..whatever you do, please share them with me. Instead of comparing ourselves to others or each other we can all celebrate our own achievements together.
 
 
I'll get started with listing mine then..
 
- learning to drive -
I genuinely can't believe I'm actually managing to do this, at the start of the year if you had asked me if I was going to learn I'd be like no, not really bothered. I wasn't lying either but now I am so glad that I am learning, it really is such a great achievement & I really do enjoy it. Even when I have a bad lesson I just brush it off & do my best the next lesson.
 
- attending two interviews -
This achievement is really recent, as in the past two months. A job vacancy came up & it sounded like my ideal job so of course I had to apply for it. I managed to get an interview the very same day, how amazing is that? Then a few weeks later I got a second one, I'd been one of their top three. Both of them were pretty informal but still the word interview is enough to make some of us nervous.
 
- speaking openly to a stranger about my anxiety -
Relating back to the job interviews, I thought you know what, anxiety plays such a big part in my life right now so I'm just going to be honest with them. I was completely honest with them, they were absolutely lovely & understanding. It clearly didn't scare them since I got a second interview. Unfortunately I didn't get the job, I lost out to a lady with more experience. I'm not going to let it get me down though because the man who interviewed me called to let me know & said there is nothing negative to come out of this at all, other than I haven't got this job. He said they really liked me as a person, so anxiety in tow...I must be a nice person.
 
- managing to be out of the house -
Some will read this & be like, big wow..to me yes it is. Sometimes you can get so absorbed in your comfort zone that you don't want to leave it. That used to happen to me an awful lot, especially when I was looking after my mum after her operation. But now I push myself a lot more, like today I have managed to help my parents out at their shop all day. Usually my mind tells me, no you can't cope..you need to go home...now! That is usually within 10 minutes of being somewhere too. But for the past week now I have managed & questioned the thought in my head.
 
 
So they are my recentish achievements, now it's your turn.
Of course only if you want to share, I'm not going to gang up on you or anything.
If you do want to share them with me, please get in touch with me & tell me all about them.
 
Achievements are such a good thing to share around & knowing other people are also achieving things, big & small makes me all smiley.
 
Thanks for reading.
- Anna ♥

Hey, let's talk about....manners

What are manners?
Do you know what manners are?
I'm certain a lot of people don't have a clue.
 
This post has come about when the other day I was in my local town doing a little bit of shopping. I went into a photo shop to get a photo printed off. When the lady served me she asked if I needed a frame to go with my photo & I responded with "no thank you, we already have one sorted".. I wasn't expecting what came next at all, the lady actually was shocked at my manners because she said not many people use them. Really when I think about it, she is right.
I've also seen a few tweets recently regarding manners too.
 
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It really irritates me when people don't use manners. It really isn't hard to use them.
 
You know when someone holds the door for you, just say thank you.
If you're grateful for something someone has done, just say thank you.
When you get off the bus, just thank the bus driver...yes it is their job but still it's nice to let people know we appreciate what they are doing. If it wasn't for that bus driver you might of had to walk your journey.
When you've been to the doctors, on your way out just thank them.
When you want somebody to help you, just say please.
If you want someone to pass you something, just say please.
If you want somebody to stop doing something that is irritating you, just say please.
 
Just use manners whenever & wherever you can.
 
Using manners is just a lovely way to be if you ask me. Manners cost absolutely nothing. We all know what they are, but I think a few of us don't know how to use them or just basically choose not to.
 
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What are your opinions on manners?
I'd love to hear what you've got to say.
 
Thanks for reading.
- Anna ♥

My Driving Journey - Lesson 36 & 37


Tuesday 29th November
My lesson today was an exciting one because I got to choose what we was going to do, oooh exciting! hehe.. So I chose to do manoeuvres, okay well Sharon suggested a few things & I picked manoeuvres. I got to practice a hill start on one estate & then headed across to an estate near by & got to practice a reverse around a bend. Well I'd like to say third time lucky for my attempt but it wasn't third, it was more like fourth....I got it a lot better the fourth time, practice really does help. After this I got to practice doing a parallel park & then headed back home.
 
 
Thursday 31st November
Anxiety was high this morning, don't know why but I suppose we just have to feel the fear & do it anyway.. Over to the next town we went, with a really strong nausea feeling in tow...what would we be doing today? Oh yeah, that's right..a mock test. To say how sick I felt I actually did pretty well, I only managed to get a few minors this time. They were really little things too, you really need to keep alert & make sure it is obvious that your aware of what is happening too. Nothing else to share about this lesson so I'll just leave it at that.

 
 Well it is safe to say that these lessons fly by now, it is crazy!
 
I sound like a broken record every time I say that I can't believe how far I have come. I genuinely never thought this would happen to me. Just think how close I am to getting a full licence. If you knew me before I started I now feel like I am a changed person.
 
Are you still yet to learn to drive & are considering it more now?
Please do let me know, I genuinely love hearing from you.
 
Thanks for reading.
- Anna ♥ 

Sit Down Sunday - 3rd November 2013

Firstly I just want to actually give credit to Lisette Loves for the idea, I really like & enjoy reading her Thankful Thursday posts. So it is safe to say she inspired me to create this feature, thank you lovely! Go ahead & check out her blog too.
 
Secondly I'd like to recommend Rachael's new feature called Lots Of Lovely Little Things.. I absolutely love Rachael's blog over at A Mad Hatter's Tea Party, please do check out her blog.. I'm sure you wont be disappointed.


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Let's get started, shall we?

- going to a bonfire display & getting in as a child
- receiving a surprise card in the post
- my helpful friend Joe for getting Luke Britnell to follow me on twitter
- building friendships with a few of the blogging girls
- cosy tights


Well that's a pretty short & sweet list but it is all I can think of for this week.
Not every week will be a massive list.

What are you grateful for this week?
What have you enjoyed?

Be sure to leave me a comment & let me know.
I love hearing from you.

Thanks for reading.
- Anna ♥

Something to focus on, a purpose & a meaning....

That is exactly why I created a blog. It gives me something to focus on, a purpose & a meaning.I didn't start blogging to get readers at all, I just blogged for something to focus on....something that could be mine. When I felt very little purpose in my life, my little blog was born. Never did I think people would be interested in what I had to say / waffle on about.
 
I used to just blog randomly whenever I felt the need really. Now I have a little routine I like to stick to because then I have a little bit of organisation in my life. My routine is to blog on a Monday (my driving lesson journey), Wednesday (hey, let's talk about....), Friday (whatever I feel the need to talk about) & Sunday (sit down Sunday). So currently my blog is very close to my heart, it is my focus. I'm sure I'm not the only one who thinks like this & if you don't blog then you might not understand.
 
I know overtime I will probably have less time to blog but I shall deal with that when the time comes. Right now I just have to go with the flow of things, take every day as it comes. You know what, life is unexpected & it can quite easily change. Did I expect to spend more time at home at the age of 21, no. But what would life be like without a battle to fight? So every now & then I will obviously share whatever is going on in my life, in my mind because....

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Do you blog?
What made you start blogging?
Does you use your blog to tell your story?

I really love writing my blog & reading others too.

Thanks for reading.
- Anna ♥